Soteria Disclosure Program

You don't have to figure
this out alone.

Whether you're preparing to tell the truth or waiting to finally hear it — the right support changes everything. Tell us where you are. We'll find the right starting place together.

5 Phase method
LCSW Licensed clinicians
Both Partners supported
Find your starting place
Before we point you anywhere, we want to understand where you are.
We're so sorry you had to find your way here. We know how much courage it took to get here — and how painful this moment is. Whatever brought you here, help is closer than it feels. Let us guide you to the right starting place.
Take your time. This is just for you.
Question 1 of 4
Which of these is closest to where you are right now?
Choose the one that feels most true, even if it's not a perfect fit.
I know what happened — and I need to find a way to tell the truth
I'm the one who needs to disclose, and I don't know how to do it without destroying everything
I know something happened — and I'm still waiting for the full picture
I've been given partial answers, and I need the complete truth in a way I can actually trust
We both know — and we're trying to figure out what comes next
The disclosure has happened in some form, but we don't have a path forward yet
I'm not sure yet — I'm still trying to understand what I'm dealing with
Something isn't right, but I don't have enough clarity to know what I need
Question 2 of 4
How urgent does this feel right now?
There's no right answer — we're trying to understand the pace that's right for you.
This needs to happen soon — I can't keep carrying this
The weight of where we are is affecting everything. I need to move.
I want to move forward, but I need to feel ready first
I'm not in crisis, but I know this needs to happen. I want to do it right.
I'm still figuring out whether to move forward at all
I'm not sure disclosure is the right step yet — I need help thinking it through first
Question 3 of 4
What matters most to you as you move through this?
Choose the one that feels most important right now.
Having someone in my corner who understands this
I don't want to navigate this alone — I need real professional guidance
A clear, structured path I can follow at my own pace
I need a roadmap more than a hand to hold
Both — I need structure and I need someone there when it gets hard
The process and the support both matter to me equally
Protecting the relationship while we get through this
Whatever we do, I need to know we're not making things worse in the process
Question 4 of 4
How complex is your situation?
Be honest — this helps us make sure we point you to the right level of support.
Relatively straightforward — one event, one relationship
Painful, but not complicated by layers of history or other relationships
There are layers — history, patterns, or more than one event
This isn't the first time, or there's more to disclose than a single incident
We're in crisis — I'm not sure either of us is okay right now
The emotional weight is significant and we need intensive support, not just structure
Almost there
Where should we send your results?
We'll show you your starting place right here — and send a personal note from the Soteria team to your inbox. No pitch. No pressure.
Your privacy is important to us. We will never share or sell your information.
Your results have also been sent to your inbox. The Soteria team will follow up within one business day. Questions? [email protected]
Licensed clinical social worker
Clinically structured 5-phase method
Support for both partners
14-day satisfaction guarantee

A structured path through one of the hardest moments of your life.

Most couples facing disclosure have no roadmap. They have the conversation unprepared, say the wrong things, and spend years trying to recover from a moment that could have gone differently.

The Soteria method changes that. Five phases, clinically grounded, designed to protect both partners through every stage.

01

Stabilization

You can't build on shaken ground. Before anything else, both partners find their footing — emotionally and practically.

02

Documentation

Clarity before disclosure. The full truth is documented — honestly, completely, and with care for both partners.

03

Disclosure

The moment everything changes — and the moment healing can begin. Supported, structured, and held.

04

Repair

Truth opens the door. Repair is what you build on the other side — with guidance at every step.

05

Integration

Not back to who you were — forward into who you're becoming together.

Truth creates stability. Safety creates openness. Choice creates desire.
The Soteria Method · Recovered Truth